I too remember being intimidated by sitting by myself in public, as a young person. I think as we age, we become more settled and comfortable with ourselves due to our experiences and accomplishments throughout our lives - self confidence. Nowadays, it seems like people are too distracted by their devices to be self conscience about being alone - a security blanket or crutch, so to speak.
Anyway, this was a very nice essay! I felt like I was imagining myself being there as you described the experience!
Love this… funny that a friend told me to do this more often- let go of your nerves and treat yourself to going out alone - since I am alone -but always feel awkward. You’ve both helped me release my insecurity and will do it more often. 💗
I too remember being intimidated by sitting by myself in public, as a young person. I think as we age, we become more settled and comfortable with ourselves due to our experiences and accomplishments throughout our lives - self confidence. Nowadays, it seems like people are too distracted by their devices to be self conscience about being alone - a security blanket or crutch, so to speak.
Anyway, this was a very nice essay! I felt like I was imagining myself being there as you described the experience!
Love this… funny that a friend told me to do this more often- let go of your nerves and treat yourself to going out alone - since I am alone -but always feel awkward. You’ve both helped me release my insecurity and will do it more often. 💗
Love the story and do this whenever we go out. Sometimes it’s sad as so many people complain too much and they are missing out on good lives.